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One Word 2013: COMMIT

Let’s start with the obvious – it’s been a few days *cough* almost a year *cough* since I updated last. Funny enough, that provides a fantastic segway into this post. 2012 is behind us and now 2013 presents us all with yet another opportunity to set resolutions…and likely give up on half to all of them. Case in point, I thought 2012 was going to bring me back into the blogging fold a little more often. Oops.

Last year, I joined Mallory Bower and Becca Obergefell as well as many others in student affairs and elsewhere to set what would be my one word resolution  (#oneword2012 or #oneword365), which was focused on the idea of PUSHThis idea behind choosing push was not to push back, but to push forward. In some areas, I feel I was successful, but not nearly to the extent I could have been. This year, as cliche as it sounds, things are going to be a little (a lot) different. Reflecting back on the highs and lows of the past year, and evaluating how push impacted it, my #oneword2013 is COMMIT. 

This seems fitting not just for me, but I think for many others out there as well. We all make choices and too often, those choices lead us into projects, challenges, resolutions, etc that we just cannot finish for one reason or another. In 2012, I wanted to push myself and but came up short. Maybe it was because I didn’t set a clear strategy of how to do that ahead of time. Maybe it was because I got complacent at times. Regardless, there are things to be done this year that I not only want to do, but are things I feel that I need to do.

My strategy to commit in 2013 initially focuses on four areas:

  1. Professional Development
  2. Running / Fitness
  3. Family
  4. Other* (this has potential to expand outward a lot I think…)

Over the next few days and weeks, I’ll go into more detail as to what each of these areas consist of and how I plan to commit to each one and how I will push myself towards the overall end goals. I’ll also explore the potential challenges associated with this goal. But today, I will end with a quote from Chris Esparza, a very energetic and inspiring individual who I met last May through my experience with the LeaderShape Institute. Chris was offering up lessons that he learned throughout the week and his lesson #4 hit home with me the strongest. He said:

LESSON 4: Stay on Course.
“There is meaning in everything we do. Stay with what lights you up.”

This statement is, at least to me, very poignant. There is meaning in everything we do.  Even the most trivial, most mundane, most spontaneous, or the most planned out activity has some meaning behind it. Stay on course, commit to what you love and have fun.

I’m on a mission to commit this year- how will you commit in 2013? Feel free to share through comments and/or via email

P.S. – I’ve been trying (nay, pushing) to find an opportunity to utilize that quote for months.
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One Word Resolution 2012: PUSH

As 2012 gets off to a fairly quick start, I find myself lacking in the resolution department. This really isn’t a huge surprise, nor is it a huge departure from the norm, but I’ve actually taken notice this time around. I have a few goals I’d like to reach, and am still digging a little deeper on a few (see a future post regarding SMART goals…), but no huge resolution. Well, that was the case until I returned from my vacation and began hearing about co-workers and other professionals choosing One Word Resolutions for the coming year. The idea, if you are unfamiliar, is to select a single word that will essentially sum up how you want to act, do, live or what you want to achieve before the end of the calendar year. After a few conversations with co-workers, I’ve decided to join the One Word movement and my word for 2012 is PUSH.

Over the last 12+ months, I have found myself pushed and pulled in every direction possible – some good, some bad – and I’m not sure that fits with who I want to be or what I want to accomplish. I want to push myself towards legitimately  accomplishing my set goals, push myself by motivating others, and push myself to strive for those things that make me truly happy – professionally, personally, socially. Pushing myself also includes pushing past my known limits, but not pushing myself over the edge.

Push, to me, is a positive word for 2012 and I’m going to own it, have fun with it, and learn from it.

2010 and 2011 pushed and pulled me in many ways – 2012 is when I push back!